Selected writing

My voice got deeper. Suddenly, people listened, New York Times

The problem with the wrong kind of trans visibility, New York Times

From a Moment of Fear, a Lifetime of Clarity, New York Times

The Self-Made man series, The Rumpus

Why men fight, Quartz

Until I was a man, I had no idea how good men had it at work, Quartz

Why is the media so worried about trans kids? The Atlantic

The End of a Violent, Simplistic, Macho Masculinity, The Atlantic

Have most men been in bar fights? The Cut (New York magazine)

Toxic masculinity is under attack. That’s fine, Vox

Amateur (column), Condé Nast's Them

The evolution of the American locker room, Playboy

The Suit: An Insult, Vestoj

I am a Masculinity Expert, VICE

Building the Man I Am, BuzzFeed Books

Trans, but not like you think, Salon